The patterns I have lived, the mistakes I have learned from, and the new ways I am learning to connect. These reflections are about love, boundaries, reciprocity, and what it means to be close.
- Relationship Patternsπ Old HabitsI am a recovering people-pleaser. I have spent much of my life saying yes when I meant no. Trying to be good. Trying to be easy.β¦ Read more: Relationship Patterns
- Communicationπ The StruggleI hate the phone. It demands instant words, instant presence, and instant answers. On the phone, I cannot read people. I cannot see their reactions. Itβ¦ Read more: Communication
- What Reciprocity Means to Meπ°οΈ The Old Pattern For most of my life, I mistook people pleasing for love. I thought that if I gave more, worked harder, and took on moreβ¦ Read more: What Reciprocity Means to Me



