These are not confessions of kink, but reflections of self. They are the truths that sit underneath my submission.
Here I write about what grounds me, what I am learning, and what it means to live openly as myself. Some are about boundaries and self-respect, some about relationships and reciprocity, some about healing and being neurodivergent.
They are not always easy truths, but they are honest ones.
To make sense of them, I have gathered my reflections into four strands of my life. Each one is a different way of understanding who I am and how I live.
🩹 Healing and Trauma
These are the raw pieces. Writing about hurt, survival, and the slow work of turning pain into understanding. Not confessions of kink, but confessions of healing.
✨ Identity and Neurodivergence
I am autistic. I am ADHD. I am still unmasking, still learning who I am without the layers I built to survive. These reflections are about identity, difference, and the truths that shape me.
🌍 Philosophy and Beliefs
The ideas I am building my life on. My personal philosophies, the ways I see the world, and the beliefs that keep me steady when everything else shakes.
💞 Relationships
The patterns I have lived, the mistakes I have learned from, and the new ways I am learning to connect. These are reflections on love, boundaries, reciprocity, and what it means to be close to someone.